I have PCOS too. I agree with the comment above about weight lifting causing water retention in the short term. I’ve experienced like a 5 lb gain anytime I start strength training. I think the body retains water as your muscles get accustomed. For me that usually resolves in a month or so. Keep doing what you’re doing! You have to play the long game. When I see people post pictures here, it’s usually over the course of a year that they actually show results. You’re doing great! Consistency is key as your body is adapting. It’s so hard to keep going when you don’t see immediate results, but with what you’re doing, you will! It might take a few months.
two things. Lifting can absolutely keep you from losing weight and have “recomposition” instead, or it can cause more water retention in the short term due to inflamation.
Second thing is RMR calculators are just that, blind calculators. My tested RMR is a full 550 calories lower than calculated (I had pegged it at 500 from a year of noted experience, but it was nice to see that measured). This sucks but it is my reality. If you dont have weightloss for another month or so, getting an oxygen conversion test could be worthwhile to see what your real RMR is. Also be aware many calorie estimators will overestimate active calorie usage . I usually factor 75% of active calories towards my TDEE to be safe
Sounds like you’re doing everything right. It took however many years to put all that weight on, it takes time for it to come off, too. Yeah you can do crazy crash methods to get it off fast, but you’ll just bounce back up after the crash diet is over. Slow and steady, just keep making good food decisions every day and you will see results
I find dr. Berg on YouTube is very informative and helpful. He explains how stress alone can completely halt weight loss because it causes your body to produce sugar. I definitely recommend watching his videos.
Have you tried raw apple cider vinegar or room temperature lemon juice in water (daily) it really speeds up your metabolism and heals your liver and even better is blending a whole organic lemon with skin on and drinking that everyday. AMAZING benefits!
If you have PCOS it means you have insulin resistance. For best results, I believe you would need an extremely low carbohydrate diet. Calories are a red herring and not all calories affect your body equally.